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The lovin’ was good, and then it started to disintegrate. Before you knew what happened, it completely fell apart and someone crossed the line of infidelity. Tears were shed, apologies were replaced with pleas and you’ve decided this relationship is worth saving.
I’d venture to guess that something wasn’t working before all this mess started which led to the current problem at hand now. How do we fix this? Let’s consider the Law of Attraction and how it can be applied to mending a ‘broken’ relationship
Ellie Walsh, Law of Attraction Trainer & Life Coach, talks about the subject in depth in her article “Can This Relationship Be Saved?” An except from her article that I really believe that everyone should take and run with, even if you take nothing else from it reads:
Living the Law of Attraction – Living Life – is not about blame, it is not about who is right or wrong nor is it about guilt or fault – It is all about creation…
So if I am living within a relationship that is not going well – I need to:
#1 accept that — this relationship is not going as I would like it to…
#2 – I created this!
OK I see a few people cringing….
I did not say the bruised relationship is your fault — nor did I say it is the other person’s fault….
I did not say the other person is right — nor did I say you are right….
To live the life of the Power-filled being that you already are – You need to take these words out of your vocabulary –
Blame
Fault
Guilt
Right
Wrong
Take that and process it. Really sit and think on it. Then apply it to the rekindling of the love that you have deemed with saving. Talk it over with your mate, and as you two work at it daily, reclaim the love that you once shared.
